We’ve all been there before… The day is moving along just like we hoped and then “WHAM” we run right into the negative wall, or in this case person. All the momentum we’ve been building is suddenly stopped dead in its tracks. Furthermore, the current moment has left the future direction and speed uncertain. So what do you do when you encounter negative people? The following seven tips should help you get back on track faster and move forward again.
- Negative People Tip #1 – Get Back to Basics – What were you working on and why were you working on it? Identifying what the current project at hand is as well as why it’s important will get you refocused on what you were doing. Moving forward again will re-engage you!
- Negative People Tip #2 – Forget About ‘Em – Perhaps the hardest aspect of dealing with negative people is putting their “negativity” behind you. However, you’ve got no control over them (even if they work for you), so move on. Consider your encounter with them to be just a speed-bump in the big road of life!
- Negative People Tip #3 – Update Your Radar System – You are going to encounter negative people, even if you’re at Disney World (aka, the “happiest place on Earth”). If you know that you are going to encounter them, why not plan your “escape” before you get into the situation? Doing so will allow you to enter the situation with confidence and exit with panache!
- Negative People Tip #4 – Be More Selective – You have a choice every hour of every day regarding what you will do and who you will do it with. Make better choices regarding what that is and who it is with!
- Negative People Tip #5 – Dr. Phil Them – I don’t want you to break out your best Dr. Phil impression and ask negative people to lie down on your couch and say “tell me your problems?” However people are often negative because they are currently occupying a “negative” space in their lives. Asking why they are there and how you can help them get from there to a “positive” place just may be a difference maker!
- Negative People Tip #6 – Go To Your Happy Place – Being negative is easy when it comes right down to it. It takes a lot of effort to stay positive when you encounter these types of individuals. When you do, remove yourself from the situation and go to a place where you can refocus, recharge and re-energize yourself!
- Negative People Tip #7 – Stay Positive – Negative people want you to come over to their side if you’re positive. Just because they want you to join their “Pity Parade” doesn’t mean that you should. Avoid doing so at all costs!
Following these seven Negative People Tips will make you more productive and positive. One of my coaching clients told me “Life’s short, play positively and you’ll succeed!” I like that…
Take a moment to complete the “Dealing with Negative People Poll” and tell me how you deal with those negative people in your world. If I can further assist, reach out to me at sp@pathosleadershipgroup.com.
